April Masini discusses that while shame is closely related to guilt and may have a place in a child’s emotional development, it becomes harmful if it leads to lingering negative patterns. She encourages parents to acknowledge when a child feels ashamed rather than dismissing it, and to create a safe space for conversation. By asking children to reflect on their emotions and actions, parents can help them understand why they feel that way and what they can do differently next time. She emphasizes the importance of turning these experiences into learning opportunities, promoting accountability, emotional awareness, and healthier behavioral choices instead of reinforcing negativity.
